Improve your relationships with This one thing Only

Muheed Razzaq
3 min readAug 30, 2021

You must have seen videos and articles all over the web talking about the tips the 5 or 15 tips for having strong relationships. You don’t need to implement others tricks for you to have a strong relationship you first need to understand what a relationship means.

Whenever two or more people begin to communicate with each other they develop a relation between them. Now you call this as a weak relation as both the persons don’t know each other well. But as the time passes and they start to know each other that relationship starts getting stronger and with time it reaches its peak. But due to the conflicts between them, at some stage it starts crumbling. There could be several reasons. But the main is that there understanding for each other becomes weaker. They start to doubt each other. The believe ratio decreases and the distances begin to increase untill a certain level is reached that now it can’t be overlapped.

According to me there is only one thing only one secret that can hold relationships and make them stronger no tips no formulas no time waste and that one thing is love yes my dear love. Show love to the person that you want in your life show them that you actually feel for them that you actually want them you actually want them to be a part of your life. Show respect, respect is the first stage of love. You don’t need to promise big dreams coming true. Just need to assure them that you will be standing by them in every situation. Good or bad. Make them feel loved. But not everyone can love you back as you do except your mother. Don’t ever set hopes with someone. No one is there for you they are there for themselves because they need you unless someone or something takes that part that you are having in their life. It’s hard to find that genuine love. Not the love with money or Facilities. Whether this is the relation with your brother, sister, father or mother or even an animal.

Those vibes of actual love can be present and you can easily differentiate between the people who love you for your money and there mean and the people who love you because the way you are, let them come and join, let them share their parts of life with you. And then let the nature play its part you cannot control everything. But you can control what is in your possession.

Some simple things can make your life much more simpler. The more complexity you put into your life the more harder and difficult it becomes to to get yourself out of the the well that you are falling in. Just like going into the depth of deep dark abyss. Keep your life simple. Don’t mess with things that nature has decided for you. Give it a chance and don’t try to indulge yourself so much into the depths that it becomes harder to come out of them. Love is simple, caring is simple and life will be simple itself. The more you try to think about the negative aspects of any relationship the more disheartened you feel and the more Complex it becomes. So try to live a simple life because a simple life is usually a happy life. All of that is based on the experience that I have gained from my life I am not a psychologist not a physiologist I am just human who tries to think about getting the solutions of wrong inputs that have been put into our minds as we grow up as it work as a software that we process in our life according to. We should try to make ourselves better in thinking relatively to be better in relations then knowing the tips.

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You should read this too for further clarification Negativities in Mind, mind that.

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Muheed Razzaq
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