Hmm, Being stuck at a point in Life sucks
Waking up early every day, getting ready for your breakfast brushing your teeth taking a bath and then preparing your special clothes which you cannot wear inside your home. Annnd yes, most importantly your lucky charm yea I mean your wallet. Its hard to live without it, even breathe.
So, Now you are ready. Your clothes your shoes everything’s looking tidy. You step out sit in your car go where you want to go whether it is your workplace or at a job and then after all the day feel like where’s my day. You are living but not actually living. You are tired and lazy sometimes annoying feeling like there is no way to run out of this atmosphere you are stuck you are not feeling as if you are living a life what you are doing is just repeating the same routine every single day. Just like a loop that keeps repeating. You know you are happy you may have a spouse I don’t have it right now I need you to remember me in your prayers uhh, whatever just back the topic everything you wanted to attain you have it but you feel like there is something still missing. You know what that is? what is going to fill that little space left which actually is so heavy that it has more weight on you as compared to all of the rest feelings. Is it scarcity of love question mark? Scarcity of motivation, may be bad health, maybe some bad company. Haha May be your boss! I know that you don’t understand it why its happening but that is very common among people. Here is the solution.
Our brain cannot distinguish between illusions and reality. For instance when we are dreaming and we suddenly fall from somewhere may be stairs or a building and feel the pain. We wake up immediately. The reactions of everything when we are dreaming is same as when we are awake. So we need to question everything, why should we worry about the thing which is galling us? Is it an illusion aur reality? May be we are taking something so seriously that it does not even requires us to be that much serious. We need to be aware of things that matter. Our body is healthy and fit then we can try to achieve everything we desire, we can make our relations better, we can help someone. We need to consciously focus on the underlying problem and try to find the solution for it instead of gambling around and waiting for no use because that stress is only going to make you weaker and be the reason for your disappointment. We must put in the desired work to find a solution for the problem and in order to put that work we need to go a bit deeper. Talking with yourself and opening the deep layers of yourself one after another is something that can be enjoyed a lot. It’s easy to help yourself out of that dark which you have surrounded yourself in. You are the one who went there and you are the one who can take you out of there. You make the decisions of your life who are the one who owes it. So, hurry up and make a move. Talk with yourself every issue can be resolved and every problem has a solution.
It may get a bit longer but it’s really important to understand that in life we face many problems life is the name of problems and we need to fight those problems and find a solution we don’t give up on them. We must continue the struggle we must keep putting the efforts we must keep learning we must keep moving we must upgrade we must change, believe and live. You get life only once. Cheer it up!
When you start to acknowledge that you are the one who is controlling the optimism then you become the leader and the game is now in your hands. Don’t be afraid of the hardships of life enjoy them and leave them. BREATHE! BREATHE! BREATHE! You got it this time too and everytime. When life annoys you (may be the boss* or your extra optimistic or pessimistic friends), just give them a chance listen to them and be aware that you know what is right and what is not. I think that this could be enough but if you are interested in learning more more about the difference between life and handling your life then you can follow me for more similar upcoming motivating and briefly explained articles.
Yours lovely,
MUHEED RAZZAQ
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